well holdens first christmas is in the bag. In general im unsure he realized any of it happened. When we went to open presents, he no doubt found the empty boxes which once held his toys more entertaining then any time which were in them. Many people told me this would be the case, but now I can say with out a doubt, I could have gotten him empty boxes and he would have been just as happy. This christmas also saw the tides change in christmas from being all about each other, to being all about him. Which im totally fine with. I got some clothes which I sorely needed, and we both got some dough from the moms for some new furniture, but the boy definitly made out like a bandit. Easily doubeling his toy collection.
Also this being his first christmas I think I was more aware then ever about the spreading of the family time. Our families luckily/unluckily live 1 mile from each other. Lucky because this means that we can spend part of each day with the other, unlucky because we feel stressed to fit every one in as well as we can, especially w/ the boy in the picture this becomes more soo true. Yet the one thing which made it some what nicer / less stressfull this year is our families merged for one night. Now to alot of people this might seem to only make sence, but our families have had a more than rocky past, so in my world this was basicly like the isralies and palestinians getting to gether over christmas. Its amaizing how a grandchild can build bridges. Also was funny in the diversity it brough to the christmas night dinner. We used to call it “the wolf home for wayward jews on christmas” party , because it was where my jewish relatives would come on thanksgiving. Now that, that side of the family has disowned us more or less, its mostly just local family and freinds eating food from italy (my mom - lasanga, artichokes , Baccalà), eastern shore (my sister in law- crab dip) and now fillipines(inlaws - braso de mercidies, fruit salad , lumpia, pancit)
other items of note would be holden missing his first day in church. He fell asleep right before we were about to go , and so his lolo stayed with him, while we showed up in our traditional filipino late fashion. No joke, there were only 3 families who showed up later then us, and they were all filipino.
now I look forward to going to the shore w/ jim and jen for new years. Last year was our last new years alone, this will be the first of MANY to come where were not. It will also take alot of will power not to convince jim we should do this
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